Recently in an interview, Shar Jackson – ex of Kevin Federline AKA Mr. Britney Spears disclosed that Federline and she were still a couple when he started dating Britney Spears.
Jackson was expecting Federline’s second child, when he flew abroad for a commercial, which resulted into long rendezvous with Spears. It was then that the truth of his relationship with Spears became apparent.
K-Fed and Spears tied the knot last year and had a baby boy in September.
In the December issue of Sister 2 Sister magazine, Jackson openly lamented by indirectly posing an question to Britney as to how she can call herself a human being with the knowledge that she (Spears) had caused pain to someone else. Jackson also added that it was a vicious cycle and one must break it!
Jackson, 29, who co-starred in the TV Series “Moesha”, has had two children with K-Fed, namely 3 year old daughter Kori and a son, Kaleb, who was born in July 2004. She also is a mom of two older kids from previous relationship.
Jackson admits that she shares a friendly relationship with K-Fed, but she does not want any child support.
Jackson states that she is very independent woman and if she wanted child support it would be an extremely easy procedure, but she is just not interested. Instead, she states that only thing she wants from Federline is that he finds some time to spend it with his kids and that’s the end of that!
Like K-Fed, Jackson too is working on her first album, but after listening to the track of Federline on the internet, I am sure anything would sound fantastic in comparison.
Shar Jackson has the right to express how she feels about the whole Brit/K.Fed mess. She is the mother of Kevin's two other children, Kori and Kaleb. Britney Spears has to be held accountable for her actions especially when she's hurting other people in the process. She is self-centered and acts like a spoiled little girl. I would be ashamed of myself as a woman to be with a man (haha) who left his pregnant common-law to be with me. It's not right, their relationship started out in a negative way, and most likely will end the same way. Britney should apologize to Shar for breaking up her family. Kevin showed her who he was by his actions. It's a shame Britney didn't listen. Now she is at home with an infant while he is out doing to her what he did to Shar. Karma will get you everytime... What goes around comes around... I hope they all work things out and think about ALL of the children involved. Shar should be applauded for being such a great mother, a strong woman who doesn't want or need deadbeat Kevin's money (Brit's money, same thing)... Way to go Shar!
shar deserves the right to talk about her ex and his so call wife they get just what they deserve she needs to do more than just talk she deserves better then that loser so shar move on girl he may be the father to your kids but he is not go find a man that could be your lover as well as a father to your kids
I hope britney gets what she deserves,she parades around like she's all that over that no good kevin like she got a catch like she didnt steal someones man,I dont think he's in love with britney I think he's in love with who she is or was U dont be with someone for years and just fall out of love with that person within a small amount of days,I also believe shar still loves kevin and I wouldnt b surprised when he and britney breakup.
I never did care for Britney too much. She always looked like a homewrecker too me. Kevin is all about money. I read that she gives him all the money that they make together as a couple so should it be a suprise to anyone that he is out partying after she just basically taken away millioms of dollars from him by not selling the baby pictures. Maybe know she'll understand what Shar is talking about and no loner look at her as a bitter girlfriend. I hope he treats her the way he did Shar and more
it's all about the money. k-fed can get nowhere without britney's name behind him. shar girl, i feel for you. as a single mother of 3 myself, you can and will make it! you don't need him. i like how you can keep yourself calm and level headed. show no fear, be a strong black woman like you are. you and your children will be fine.
I'm glad shar is independent and doesn't want child support, but i'd take it anyway and put it up for their college fund. britney would probably be paying anyway!!
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP SHAR! I COMMEND YOU ON THE STRONG AND MATURE WOMAN THAT YOU ARE. I STILL FEEL YOU SHOULD TAKE THE CHILD SUPPORT FOR YOUR CHILDREN EVEN IF YOU DON'T NEED IT. THERE IS NO WAY HE SHOULD GET OFF THE HOOK PHYSICALLY AND FINANCIALY,SHE WANTED THE MAN SO SHE SHOULD ENDURE HIS DEPT ALSO. THERE IS NO WAY THAT HE SHOULD BE SMILING IN ANY TABLOIDS WITH HIS SO CALLED NEW FAMILY WHILE HE HAS ABANDONED HIS OTHER FAMILY. BRITNEY SHOULD WANT TO PAY OUT OF GUILT, AFTER ALL THEY ARE HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS.......
Shar is better off without him. However, I am very concerned about her position that he does not have to pay child support.
For the longest, I have known many single mothers who take that position. That is only cheating your children. For some strange reason, women feel some sort of guilt or that it is unnecessary to demand child support. I don't see that as showing a sign of independence. That is really depriving your children.
There are many single fathers who insist upon paying child support. That is the attitude that K-Fed should take. He is now in a financial position where he has no excuse. His wife is 'sorry' to not insist that he do this.
She cares nothing for his children.
Single mothers, don't let your children's fathers off the hook because you feel that you can handle the situation yourself. That is so unfair to your children. They will appreciate you later for pursuing their child support.
I have always felt that one of the best methods of birth control is legally forcing fathers to pay child support. I guarentee you that paying all of that money will make men think twice before having sex without a condom.
GUEST said: For the longest, I have known many single mothers who take that position. That is only cheating your children. ..... That is really depriving your children.
I would have agreed with you, but there is a slight problem, he does not really have the money!
I mean if Shar demands the money, it would come from Britney's pocket and then there would a new discussion on how Shar is using Britney!
Sure, if K-Fed earns millions and she does not want any part of it, her actions though idealistic, might be not in the best interest of her children, but K-Fed is hardly a ideal father material and I guess she does not want any part of Britney's money in her children's life and I for one am proud of Shar for taking the easy way out!
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I do believe that if Kevin were forced to pay child support, Britney probably would be paying the money. But don't married people sometimes have to help each other with their financial obligations. That is what married people do.
How many times has Whitney Houston's money been used to pay child support for Bobby's children? Is the mother of his children wrong to accept the money? Absolutely not!!! Whitney took on some of his financial obligations when she married him. The same goes for Britney.
Look, this is not about Britney, Kevin, or Shar. This is totally about the children. Anyone having a problem with Kevin paying child support, with money that he probably gets from his wife, needs to get over it. Shar is completely in her rights to demand that the father of her children pay child support. It is not a choice, but an obligation to her children. Just because he is a sorry man is no reason to excuse him from his responsibilities.
Maybe Britney will make him get a job.
I know people in the family court system who have told me that dead beat dads want the mothers of their children to feel guilty about filing for child support. The system encourages and applauds mothers who file for support. It does not matter if the father is taken care of by another woman OR if he makes a small or large salary. It is all about the CHILDREN.
nicole, shar i am very proud of you girl .britney will get exactly what she done to you with kevin ,she knowing that you and kevin were toegther and have a 3 year old child and a baby on the way and still get all lovey dovey with kevin so publicly will get what she done to you and worst ,i could hardly wait .she was acting as though she was all that and we all get to find out the kind of home wrecker she really is .she definite has no humane morals at all .i think you should have take the child support from kevin because we all know who thw money will be coming from,britney i will have get some easy revenge money .keep your head up high girl and show the white girls what dignity is all about ,well britney in this case .i am standing by your side 100%.
The previous guest (Nicole) says to Shar that she should ‘take the child support money’ from Kevin, because it will come out of Britney’s pocket. That way, she will get some easy ‘revenge’ money. This is from the previous guest.
I want to point out one word that stood out to me in the previous message. That word is REVENGE.
It is sad that so many people are so caught up in the battle between the ex and the present wife. OK, I don’t like Britney either. However, this whole issue of child support is about two people, Kori (3 years old) and Kaleb (16 months old). It is about Kevin and Shar’s children.
The previous guest is suggesting that since Britney is not liked, Shar should seek child support? If the previous guest did not like Shar but likes Britney, does that mean Shar should not seek child support? This is the ridiculous thought pattern that some adults have.
Shar should not seek child support for REVENGE. She should do that as an obligation to her children.
The father of those children needs to be held accountable for meeting his responsibilities. Who cares that the money would come from Britney. That is not the first time someone helps their spouse pay support for their children from another relationship.
I definitely feel that Shar was done wrong. However, if Shar wants to show some class, she needs to stop talking publicly about this situation. She is starting to act like she still wants him back. If she does, she is the fool, not Britney.
Another thing. Nicole has issues with Britney being white. Shar apparently did not, since she had two children with a white man. Nicole, would it be OK if Britney were black? Some food for thought coming from a proud black woman.
All three of them are idiots and the press should stop giving them the attention that the crave. Who cares!!!!
Brittany is a stupid hillbilly and Kevin is a gold digging gigolo. Shar is probably the only one with any brains at all. Oh wait, I take that back, she got involved with Kevin and that was totally stupid.
I think she is crazy. It is one thing to be independent and take care of your children if you have to but if you dont get that money. I don't care if it comes from brittney or Kfed. That the problem with men now no one is making them pay for what is theirs. You better get while the getting is good after brittney if you did want or need some money you wont be able to get any because hes not gonna make it with those lousy lyrics. If her little piece of sunshine can have the world why not let your children have a little piece to.
Shar,
You are better off without that loser in your life. However, you shouldn't let him off the hook of paying child support. I mean, the money you get could be used for a college fund set aside for the children.
No reason why the loser should be off the hook, and then to let him come around to see the children w/o paying anything is totally out.
get the money it doesn't having anything to do with brit those kids where concieved before he even meet her girl get what belongs to your babies some mothers out here wish they had the chioce..............
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